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I remember after a pee wee football game, my dad told me my effort was pathetic... and he was right. Not that I "sucked" or that I was a bad athlete or something anything that, but that my effort was lacking, and it showed on the field. And it made me want to get better. And I did.Then I remember when I got cut from the High School basketball team. It stung, was really embarrassing, but i'm glad i got to experience failure in that way, then, so I am better suited to handle it now, when it really matters.Very good post Will. Competition is such a huge part of life, both internally to one's self, and externally with others. And the purpose of competing is to win.
When I played little league ball there was a tryout. You made it or didn't. There was no adding teams so everyone got a uniform. Winning and being successful are hard work. When all of the trophies look the same, there is no motivation to get better.