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Great story and inspiration.  :likebutton:

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Faith Discussion / Re: Prayer Request thread
« on: September 09, 2018, 04:00:33 PM »
Great to hear she is doing well Jon.


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D.O.T. / Re: WDYDT (What Did You Do Today)
« on: September 06, 2018, 11:05:24 AM »
I have started putting together a cook book
Nice!  Are you going to have it published or just online?


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still compiling and building

Well put me on the waiting list. I hope it has pictures. :) Not that I would cook anything. Just look and drool like normal. I'm a terrible cook.

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D.O.T. / Re: WDYDT (What Did You Do Today)
« on: September 05, 2018, 10:15:45 PM »
I have started putting together a cook book
Nice!  Are you going to have it published or just online?


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Faith Discussion / Re: Prayer Request thread
« on: September 02, 2018, 09:37:20 PM »
So sorry to hear Dave. Prayers sent for all. Be well.


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D.O.T. / Re: WDYDT (What Did You Do Today)
« on: September 02, 2018, 09:28:42 PM »
Charles, my wife picked out her last vehicle after driving 30 different vehicles. No one in the family liked it (which we told her b4 we bought it btw). I don’t think she really liked it either, truth be told. Bought her this 4Runner & everyone is happy. The cherry on top was her telling me I’m just going to let you choose from now on. We love our Toyota so far.....


Oh & im officially 41 today, so there’s that.
Happy Birthday!  Hopefully many more to come.


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Build Threads / Re: 2000 XJ
« on: September 02, 2018, 08:53:13 PM »
Very nice looking. Great work!


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D.O.T. / Re: Sara Sanders lip reading
« on: August 29, 2018, 08:54:40 AM »
Link worked for me Jon. Too funny!  :likebutton:

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D.O.T. / Re: WDYDT (What Did You Do Today)
« on: August 28, 2018, 09:49:18 AM »
Nate, Borgata! Nice. Just don't lose your shirt.

You can run but not hide!  :beercheers:

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D.O.T. / Re: WDYDT (What Did You Do Today)
« on: August 27, 2018, 10:32:56 PM »
I forgot that i had my gps enabled when i took that pic and embeded the meta data to the pic......lol

How about this one mike?
Nate. I didn’t use the meta data. I used to live in Mullica Hill,NJ and used to drive by the stadium all the time. Then I saw the Lawrence street sign and could tell you were getting on I76 

I’ll have to look into your new pic but my first guess would be Atlantic City. There is a parking lot with a bunch on limos staged there. You only see that near NYC or casinos.

Need more investigation. Lol

And duh. Just saw the water tower. DO. AC. (Atlantic City)


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Nate. Are you staying at the Borgata or just eating there?






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D.O.T. / WDYDT (What Did You Do Today)
« on: August 27, 2018, 10:18:27 PM »
I forgot that i had my gps enabled when i took that pic and embeded the meta data to the pic......lol

How about this one mike?
Nate. I didn’t use the meta data. I used to live in Mullica Hill,NJ and used to drive by the stadium all the time. Then I saw the Lawrence street sign and could tell you were getting on I76 

I’ll have to look into your new pic but my first guess would be Atlantic City. There is a parking lot with a bunch on limos staged there. You only see that near NYC or casinos.

Need more investigation. Lol

And duh. Just saw the water tower. DO. AC. (Atlantic City)


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D.O.T. / Re: WDYDT (What Did You Do Today)
« on: August 27, 2018, 05:09:07 PM »
Can anybody guess where this pic was taken at this afternoon?  May have to zoom in

Looks like the Phillies Stadium in Philadelphia. :)  Getting on I76 Schuylkill Expy


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Well I have a new one. Last night my 16 year old son was warming up for his very first High School Varsity league soccer game and gets knocked to the ground. Spent a few hours in the emergency room with a broken collar bone. Will definitely need surgery. Bummer is he will miss the entire season in his Junior year and won't be available for college scouts. Will have to keep hitting the books for scholarships. Lol.


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Tell your son, I know his pain.  Been there, done that, got the T-shirt.  Very disheartening initially. Also very painful.  Takes a year to heal.  DO NOT RUSH IT!  Do yhe excersizes in PT and he'll be laughing about this next year.

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Thanks NJ. He will be fine. Tough kid. Now Mom on the other hand. “Eyerolls”. He was the most upset as he was leaving and not able to play the game.


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Well I have a new one. Last night my 16 year old son was warming up for his very first High School Varsity league soccer game and gets knocked to the ground. Spent a few hours in the emergency room with a broken collar bone. Will definitely need surgery. Bummer is he will miss the entire season in his Junior year and won't be available for college scouts. Will have to keep hitting the books for scholarships. Lol.


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That I really like! 


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Faith Discussion / Re: Prayer Request thread
« on: August 24, 2018, 08:05:54 AM »
Thanks everyone. It is a team effort! I will let you know what the report is in October.

Cuda... you might be right. I'm not all that attached to the hair so if it doesn't grow back no biggie. Will just have to wear more stocking caps up here in the winter plus it doesn't get in my eyes when the window is rolled down.  :beercheers:

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Parenting / Re: Sophies soapbox derby
« on: August 23, 2018, 02:40:53 PM »
Don, Sophie and I have a cup together on the weekends too. mostly milk and chocolate syrup, but she does like here little coffee here and there. I got her fishing with me the other night and boy did I open a can of worms, (figuratively). I didn't have a rod for here so I broke out my light tackle trout rod/spinning real combo and she figured out how to cast with the bale correctly in 3 tries. the surf perch were all over the place, so we started catch and release for about 2 hrs. she casts straight, and about 30 yards consistently. So I bought her 1st rod and reel combo, a bunch of salmon gear and we have a date Saturday and Sunday morning on the little boat. Hopefully the smoke clears so it's not so nasty out. Looking forward to coffee and fishing with my daughter until soapbox comes around again.

Sounds like a perfect weekend!  :likebutton:

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Faith Discussion / Re: Prayer Request thread
« on: August 23, 2018, 02:36:11 PM »
Praise God!

Hey, let's see a peach fuzz shot

Then a buzz shot

Then the mil style haircut we all crave and love

Then finally, back to that hippie mess you normally wear! ;-))

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Peachfuzz 1 and 2. Then pic of my normal hairstyle. (pics pre rotated so Nate doesn't have to... maybe)  :facepalm:


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Faith Discussion / Re: Prayer Request thread
« on: August 23, 2018, 09:24:11 AM »
Nate's comment on my other post reminded me that I should do a quick update on my cancer BS. Your prayers have worked so thank you very much. I'm not in the clear yet but pretty good prognosis. My last PET scan came up mostly "resolved". SO that is very good news. I have a followup PET scan in early October to see if any of the areas come back. SO if I get an all clear in October I will be very happy. Right now based on my history I basically go from waiting for the next shoe to drop to happy.

They let me off of Chemo for about a month now and will wait until the October results to see if I need to go back on Chemo. So now just getting my strength back and might be able to live rather than coping.  :beercheers: Oh and I do have some peach fuzz growing back. Hopefully I can keep it for winter. LOL I still have lingering issues from the radiation and chemo from Neuropathy in my feet and hands to swallowing solid foods. But not a big deal to handle.

Thanks again for all the prayers. I have to say it has been very humbling all of the support I have received even from places I didn't  even know existed. 

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D.O.T. / Re: WDYDT (What Did You Do Today)
« on: August 23, 2018, 09:06:37 AM »
Do you really think they would use that WiFi name??

How do you like that 365? That is one of the few 9mm that really has me thinking. Need to be creative to get it here though, but it can be done legit.

JR - I really like the 365 so far. Compact and light. 12 rounds of 9mm. Shoots extremely well even with a novice like me. I checked several casing and I didn't see any of the pin drag on the primer that seems to be the Youtube rage. After I change the mag release button and get more time on it I will let you know if that changes. I paid $519.00 and an extra $43.00 for the 12 round mag. I had sold my Sig 232 380ACP to change to this.  :likebutton:

380 up to a 9mm sounds like a great move

Definitely for CC. But now I was cleaning the guns from the range last night and was looking in my ammo closet and I have 1000 rounds of .380 the guy didn't want. Plus I have left handed holsters that no one would want. Can't do much about the holsters but I was looking a Glock 42 to burn up the .380.  Hmmmm  :popcorn:

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Build Threads / Re: Redneck Dually Build Thread
« on: August 23, 2018, 08:48:55 AM »
Well bringing the last pieces up to speed and a bump for Mr Woody as it gets close to hitting the sale block.

I forgot to update the backflip bed cover which works well with the fifth wheel

and today I had the windsheild replaced

And some shots of the paint after clay bar compound and wax


I have to say that is the best looking paint I have seen in a long while. That is one thing I miss about Texas. You can keep a truck looking good for more than a day or two unlike Crapsota.

I would just keep it. Next month you will need a big trailer or something and you would never replace it for what you sell it for. Plus if it's paid off it isn't depreciating much anymore. It's becoming an asset.. especially in Texas where every truck has 200K miles on them. Under 100K they are like gold.  LOL

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Just poking at ya bro.

It is a highly offensive descriptive phrase comprised of a slang for a part of the female anatomy that is used as a derogatory term for the recoil pad often used by people sensitive to recoil


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Oh.. one of those.. I do have a rubber one of those but just not bright enough to take it along just in case! LOL Plus it would look kinda dorky on that adjustable plastic stock when it is designed for a nice mahogany wood stock. Not very tactical I might add. And you know it's all about the look.  :facepalm:

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D.O.T. / Re: WDYDT (What Did You Do Today)
« on: August 22, 2018, 03:47:15 PM »
FINALLY! got out to the range after over 3 years of not shooting. Sighted in my Sig716 .308 that I have never shot since new. It only took my 100 rounds. That was a couple of fun hours. :grin:

Then moved to my new Sig P365. Shot around 50 rounds in it. Was running out of daylight. I have to say I'm newbie to pistols but for a short barrel it shot very well. I only had one problem with it. It is small and I'm left handed. The magazine release button is on the left side. I think I was squeezing too hard and was on the button. Then when one round was trying to eject the magazine was not seated and so it didn't eject and the new round fell out while the magazine dropped out. All the while there was some smoke coming out of the mag well. Checked and everything was fine after that and ran another 25 rounds through it with no problems. I will definitely have to switch the mag release button to the right side. Also checking the spent cases I didn't see any strike pin drag at all.  :likebutton:

So fun few hours.
Nate, Thanks for rotating the pics. Not sure why it did that. They looked fine on my computer but were taken with my iPhone.

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D.O.T. / Re: WDYDT (What Did You Do Today)
« on: August 22, 2018, 03:45:44 PM »
Do you really think they would use that WiFi name??

How do you like that 365? That is one of the few 9mm that really has me thinking. Need to be creative to get it here though, but it can be done legit.

JR - I really like the 365 so far. Compact and light. 12 rounds of 9mm. Shoots extremely well even with a novice like me. I checked several casing and I didn't see any of the pin drag on the primer that seems to be the Youtube rage. After I change the mag release button and get more time on it I will let you know if that changes. I paid $519.00 and an extra $43.00 for the 12 round mag. I had sold my Sig 232 380ACP to change to this.  :likebutton:

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Nate, That could be. No problem though. Well worth it. First time shooting .308. Always had the 30.06 which seems stouter with grandpa's hand loads. .223 much gentler. And hey.. I at least hit the paper.

TRN.. not sure what a P Pad is... unless it is a feminine hygiene product..  :facepalm:

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I must be a wussy or not doing it correctly but the .308 left a mark from last night. LOL I thought it was very tight to my shoulder! The funny thing is you can see the stripe pattern from the skinny rubber stock butt.

Well worth getting to fire it off.  :beercheers:


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D.O.T. / Re: WDYDT (What Did You Do Today)
« on: August 22, 2018, 08:31:04 AM »
FINALLY! got out to the range after over 3 years of not shooting. Sighted in my Sig716 .308 that I have never shot since new. It only took my 100 rounds. That was a couple of fun hours. :grin:

Then moved to my new Sig P365. Shot around 50 rounds in it. Was running out of daylight. I have to say I'm newbie to pistols but for a short barrel it shot very well. I only had one problem with it. It is small and I'm left handed. The magazine release button is on the left side. I think I was squeezing too hard and was on the button. Then when one round was trying to eject the magazine was not seated and so it didn't eject and the new round fell out while the magazine dropped out. All the while there was some smoke coming out of the mag well. Checked and everything was fine after that and ran another 25 rounds through it with no problems. I will definitely have to switch the mag release button to the right side. Also checking the spent cases I didn't see any strike pin drag at all.  :likebutton:

So fun few hours.

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D.O.T. / Re: WDYDT (What Did You Do Today)
« on: August 21, 2018, 10:59:27 PM »
Looks like I found a home for my mom. Very nice newer place and I took her there after I toured it. Nice studio with a kitchenet (microwave but no cooking), walk in shower and can even have small pets. Meals are cooked to order like a restaurant which was a biggy for me.

About $3500 a month which is actually low in the state and nearby (closer than her house). I need to work on veterans spouse aid which could be around 1200/month. My dad was a career marine serving in both Korea and VN. With that, her current $2000 income we would have to sell the house and invest the proceeds. Figure around $250K clear would net 1500-2000 a month and even add to the till with spending cash. Right now I need to finalize the power of attorney and trust which I already run.

This has been on my mind for some time now and it is time, even she said so. We see the Dr next week for the form she needs but that should be a breeze.


Those tiles look great!

Yep, its been about the $$ for some time now. Unless you are illegal or have lots of $$.
JR. glad you found a nice place close to home. It is tough these days to find people that really care.


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Share Your Recipe / Re: Chicken stock
« on: August 20, 2018, 07:40:03 AM »
Jon, Nice job on the stock.  :likebutton:

I also have to say I really like the diamond plate back splash! Man cave. :)

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D.O.T. / Re: Cause...’Merica
« on: August 17, 2018, 04:55:36 PM »
Well Don's goes without saying..  :likebutton:

Here is mine:


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LOL  TRN..  :rolleyes:

Don, You are the owner...you can delete.. or just tapping out... TMI?  :beercheers:

It originally reminded me of sitting around the fire at Elk Camp and someone asks "how did you get that scar?"... and it devolves down from there. Pretty soon it was the best story one could make up.

Example: I used to work construction pouring foundations for basements and using forms. When you knocked off the form the wire retention hoops that were cut still stuck out razor sharp. So walking in the pit next to the new wall I hooked my left arm by the elbow on one and cut it wide open. Not real deep so no biggie. But because it was on the crook of my arm every time I straightened my arm out it would pop the scab open so after several of those the scar looked like it was large with a bunch of big stitches. When really it was just a scratch... I had to come up with a much better story than that..    :popcorn:

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Looks like fun!  :cool:

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Firearms / Re: Internet gun buying. Newbie
« on: August 11, 2018, 04:54:38 PM »
New SigP365

Picked up the new 9mm I have been stalking on YouTube and the blogs lately. Really small!

Will let you know how it shoots.




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Hide Site / Re: Hide site, retirement site.
« on: August 11, 2018, 04:31:41 PM »
Looks sweet. Nice set up and I will bet it great to get everything out of storage.


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I know a really smart, good lookin' fella who's company just so happens to reman some of the best manual transmissions out there...  :rolleyes: Feelin like a drive out to MN? Don't we have some members out there? anyone near Rochester?
Tate. I'm only two hours from Rochester.

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D.O.T. / Re: WDYDT (What Did You Do Today)
« on: August 09, 2018, 04:45:00 PM »
So true! LOL

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Sean,

Thanks for the feedback and comments. Stay safe on your next deployment.

Ditto what Ken says as well..

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D.O.T. / Re: WDYDT (What Did You Do Today)
« on: August 09, 2018, 04:33:29 PM »
59 metres? WTH!! ...Didn't know they made them that huge here in the states.
Sounds like a blast Bear. He will remember that day the rest of his life.

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Trying to think of an H joke... nope..

They are made in Fort Madison, IA at a Siemans plant.

'Merica!  :beercheers:

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I read this book by Don Brown. I'm not a conspiracy person but there are so many unanswered questions. Seemed like a set up.

 

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D.O.T. / Re: WDYDT (What Did You Do Today)
« on: August 08, 2018, 08:13:46 AM »
We have a cool event happening at work today. It is Wind Appreciation week. For Power that is. Not Wyoming style.

We have a 59 meter long blade in our parking lot for visitor to view as well as the Schnabel tower trailer hooked up to the truck with the big sign.

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I have a somewhat jaded look at debt. Especially credit card debt. It is none of our business as to what was purchased to go into credit card debt but it is definitely the easiest thing to do. I have been there as well.

I would also look at bankruptcy with a whole bunch of caveats. Most bankruptcies are a direct effect of medical bills overwhelming someone.  We don't know what your current fixed expenses are. Mortgage, Utilities, Healthcare, etc.... and we don't know your income.

So after 10% tithes are you able to cover all fixed expenses in your home now? (you don't have to answer that). If so you could potentially stay in your home and negotiate out of most of your credit card debt. If your credit rating is already low the credit card companies might reduce the balance amount and suspend interest while you pay back some of it if they feel that you will file bankruptcy and they won't get any of the money back. Bankruptcy effects you for at least 7 years. If you can pay cash and not finance anything for the next couple of years that might sound doable. I would consult with a legit bankruptcy attorney before you decide anything. Crazy experience I had was I called to see if I could get my mortgage payment suspended for a couple of months until I found a job. They told me I would have to be delinquent on at least 3 months of payments for them to consider that. So they want you to destroy your credit rating before they will help.

I have always had too much pride to file bankruptcy. When I was in NJ and laid off for the first time ever in my life in 2010 I had high $$ mortgage, high $$ expenses associated to that house and a style of living that was commensurate with making over $200K a year. It only took me 2 and a half months to find another job here in MN but it took over a year to sell my expensive home n NJ and my new job paid $10 of thousands less than my previous job had. So long story short. Because I didn't want to miss any payments and didn't want to default on any loans over the months and year I liquidated all my investment accounts that I had poured $$ into for years just to pay the bills. My kids college funds were used to pay the mortgage for months. All savings went to pay bills. We ended up losing over $100K on the house. I was living in MN and family was still in NJ. 

And all while this was going on I get a letter from Discover Card. Within months of me getting laid off the letter said they were reducing my credit line from $35K to $1500.00! I only had $1200.00 balance on the card. I only had two credit cards. One from USAA and Discover. I had been a Discover customer for 20 years. Never missed a payment. Never had a very big balance. Always paid on time. Just the time in my life I could have used some temporary credit they basically killed the credit line. So I paid off the $1200.00 and canceled the card. Still makes me mad these years later every time I get a spam mailer from Discover with a new OFFER... I feel like torching it. LOL

So you can tell I have no love lost for Credit Card companies. They are predatory.

Looking back should I have stopped paying my bills and waited the years for them to evict me from my expensive house? I don't know. But I definitely explored it at the time and think to this day I would have been better off to file and pay everything cash. I'm still bailing out from that period of time and still only have one Credit Card (USAA) that rarely has a balance. My wife drives a 2005 Armada with close to 200k mile. I drive a 2008 Duramax with 120K miles with no payments. We pay cash for everything if possible. I did however buy a Kubota BX25D with their no interest offer. That will be paid off in a couple of months.

SOooooo sorry for the long thread but at the end of it all do what is best for your family and specifically the kids. What is the most stable and enriching environment you can create for them? I don't hold any allegiance to any credit card company.

Wish you the best and will be praying for you and your family.  :smiley:

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D.O.T. / Re: WDYDT (What Did You Do Today)
« on: August 03, 2018, 08:18:48 AM »
Copy and thank you all for advise


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Dave,

Unfortunately DOT will be the least of the owners worries with a fatality. I'm surprised he hasn't already been hit with a civil lawsuit with papers to save every document associated with his business.

The paper article states the driver loss control. It looks like the day was bright and no inclement weather so most likely speed was a factor.

Couldn't tell the age of the truck or if it has an ECM module on the engine but they will pull it if it is there.  They will also focus on his phone. Was he distracted while driving? Texting or talking on phone? Looking up something? All bad.

They will also go through every other driver for the company and try to construct a pattern of neglect or poor management of unsafe drivers. So if there isn't a DOCUMENTED safety and discipline policy and then actual records of enforcement of that policy that will show that the company doesn't care about safety and kills people. It isn't about reality, it's about what they can get a jury to believe. In this day and age they will believe almost anything.

Hopefully the driver didn't say anything or make any statements. Hopefully the company responded quickly to the accident and have their attorney already handling everything.

A fatality accident can be millions of dollars. The deceased was only 33. So they will try to paint a picture of all of the earnings and POTENTIAL $$$ he could have earned and try to make them pay plus damages to family. It is a terrible situation.

I agree with the others about liability and using your personal vehicle for work. At the end of the day when it comes to money no matter what your employer tells you, in an event like this you will be hung out to dry and it's every man for himself. Especially when they see a threat to their very existence and continued viability as a company. The plaintiffs attorneys would come after you and everything you own whether its right or not they don't care. They are digging for the biggest payday for the law firm.

Sorry for the loss and the hell everyone is going to go through.

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Faith Discussion / Re: Prayer Request thread
« on: July 31, 2018, 08:22:42 AM »
Matt, Prayers for you and family. Take it easy on you and the ones nursing you.  :cheesy:

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Hide Site / Re: Hide site, retirement site.
« on: July 30, 2018, 08:00:27 AM »
Nice progress TRN! Looks like a lot of room and well lit!  :beercheers:

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Faith Discussion / Re: Prayer Request thread
« on: July 27, 2018, 09:14:53 PM »
Prayers sent. Sounds awful.


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My wife ( the more liberal human in the house) sent me this article and thought it was an interesting perspective. Also as frame of reference her practice husband was Army Intelligence so she has that experience that colors her views at times also. 

I personally think that we that are non Vets or have limited exposure to the military struggle in how to support both past and active military personnel. Definitely 9/11 shaped things but I think it goes back further than that based on how old you are. Being 60 I vividly remember the stain on the USA with the god awful treatment of the Vietnam Vets. It was an absolute national tragedy in my opinion. So I think the current climate is probably us trying to not let that happen again but most likely not very good at it because we can't relate to what would be truly impactful as an expression of gratitude for your service.

I am definitely in the Peace through Strength camp. The dismal 8 years of apologetic Obama also need to be erased. I don't know Mad Dog Mattis but anyone that says this ""Find the enemy that wants to end this experiment (in American democracy) and kill every one of them until they’re so sick of the killing that they leave us and our freedoms intact." has to be a National Treasure and someone I want at the tip of the spear.

I remember the pride of Gen. H. Norman Schwarzkopf "Shock and Awe'. Contrast the TV coverage of that vs. the TV coverage of War during Vietnam. Vietnam was the first time war was really brought into our living rooms via TV. Now with the internet it is everywhere.

Personally I think we struggle today to keep symbols that many of us hold dear relevant when they are attacked on a daily basis. The Flag, Anthems, Statues, The Constitution, Bill of Rights, Memorials, etc... Talking to my kids that are 20 and below they have been assaulted on a regular basis from Liberal anti American anti God points of view. It is a battle to not let them win.

So from my point of view I don't see it as a glorification of a weapon/s of death. I see it as peace through strength. I truly hope we never have to use them. I would wish we never have to deploy anywhere. But there is evil everywhere. Both home and abroad. I think we have to be very selective in what we do and normally those decisions are way above my pay grade.


Article here, Text below that.
http://www.wbur.org/onlyagame/2018/07/20/military-sports-astore-francona

While researching my book “The Heritage,” I was struck by the enormous effect the Sept. 11 terrorist attacks have had on sports — how they look, how they’re packaged and how they’re sold. Before 9/11, giant flags and flyovers were reserved for the Super Bowl. Today, they are commonplace. Even the players wear camouflage jerseys. The military is omnipresent. And it’s by design.

The public accepts this as supporting the troops, but one group of individuals — the veterans themselves — is more skeptical. One voice stood out: William Astore's.

"They bring out a humongous flag," he says. "Military jets fly overhead, sometimes it’s a B-2 stealth bomber, sometimes it’s fighter jets."
Military flyovers have become more common since 9/11. (Sean M. Haffey/Getty Images)
Military flyovers have become more common since 9/11. (Sean M. Haffey/Getty Images)

Bill Astore is a retired Air Force lieutenant colonel who writes about the increased militarization of sports — and its perils — on Bracing Views, his personal blog, as well as the website Tom Dispatch.

"I think, at first, there’s a sort of thrilling feeling," Astore says. "I’m like all the other fans: a big plane goes overhead — ‘Wow!’ That's kind of awe inspiring. But at the same time, to me, it’s not something that I see should be flying over a sports stadium before a baseball game or a football game. You know, these are weapons of death. They may be required, but they certainly shouldn't be celebrated and applauded."

Astore grew up in Brockton, Massachusetts, the bare-knuckle town of famed boxers Rocky Marciano and Marvelous Marvin Hagler. He’s an avid Red Sox fan, and when he watches sports, he sees the perpetual selling of war, and something very cynical: patriotism for sale, with troops as bait.

The MLB All-Star Game in Washington, D.C., this week was so awash in ceremony, it conjured thoughts of an old joke with a new twist: “I went to a military parade and a baseball game broke out.”

"I think our military has made a conscious decision, and that decision was, as much as possible, to work with strong forces within our society," Astore says. "I think our military made a choice to work with the sporting world — and vice versa. I think that's something that's in response to 9/11."

Before 9/11, an American flag the size of a football field was unheard of.
Many NFL teams have incorporated extensive patriotic displays in their pregame routines. (Mitchell Leff/Getty Images)
Many NFL teams have incorporated extensive patriotic displays in their pregame routines. (Mitchell Leff/Getty Images)

"What I remember from going to games is: I remember the national anthem, a conventional-sized American flag, and that’s all I remember," Astore says. "And I have to say that I thought that was enough.

"You know, after 9/11, there were so many people that I saw who broke out the flags and put them on their cars and had a spontaneous reaction to a feeling that we, as Americans, needed to come together. And that felt good."

In the years following 9/11, professional sports took a healing gesture and transformed it into a way to make money. In 2015, Republican Sens. John McCain and Jeff Flake released the report “Tackling Paid Patriotism,” which criticized the deceptive, taxpayer-funded contracts between the Pentagon and virtually every pro sports league. In 2012, the New York Army National Guard paid the Buffalo Bills $250,000 to conduct on-field re-enlistment ceremonies. In 2014, the Georgia National Guard paid the Atlanta Falcons $114,000 to sing the national anthem. In 2015, the Air Force paid NASCAR $1.5 million in part for veterans to shake hands with racing legend Richard Petty. Your tax dollars. At work.

"I hate to say it, but I wasn't completely surprised," Astore says. "But I was disgusted by it. Patriotic displays, they mean a lot more to me when they're spontaneous. But to learn that these had been paid for — that corporate teams, teams owned by billionaires, basically, were collecting money from the military. Paid for, obviously, by you and me, by the American taxpayer. Well, it was sad."
"Tackling Paid Patriotism" shed light on the millions of taxpayer dollars being spent by the military on patriotic displays at sporting events.
"Tackling Paid Patriotism" shed light on the millions of taxpayer dollars being spent by the military on patriotic displays at sporting events.

American flags are the ultimate Good Housekeeping seal. And thanking veterans for their service disconnects the public from what has been nearly two decades of war. The ballpark ceremony obscures the realities of war and, by focusing on soldiers, inoculates the government from antiwar criticism. Astore tells me it’s a form of emotional manipulation.

"Under the Bush-Cheney administration, we weren’t even able to see the caskets of dead soldiers," Astore says. "The cost of war — that very ugly face of war — was being kept from us.

"And the only time we see it, sometimes, is when they bring out a wounded soldier, for example. And maybe he or she has lost two or three limbs, but they’re brought out into an NFL stadium or an MLB baseball game. And the impression that you get is, 'Everything’s OK, see?' But we don’t see this person struggling to get around at home. And maybe being depressed because they’ve suffered this horrible wound in war."

Nick Francona grew up in baseball. His last name is a dead giveaway. His grandfather, Tito Francona, played 15 years in the big leagues and was teammates with Hank Aaron in the 1960s. His father, Terry, played 10 years in the majors, and, famously, managed the 2004 Red Sox to their first World Series in 86 years.

Nick took a different path.

"I was in my freshman year at Penn," Nick says. "A friend of mine that I played travel baseball with, he had enlisted after high school and was an infantry Marine. And he was in Iraq during my freshman year in college. And it used to keep me up at night. And it would bother me a lot where I would kind of sit there and be, like, 'Man, I’m playing a lot of online poker, going to econ classes, and going out to bars and, like, we have a war going on.' I felt like I was missing out and not contributing or not doing my part."

    “I remember the national anthem, a conventional-sized American flag, and that’s all. And I thought that was enough.” Bill Astore

Nick joined the Marines, becoming a scout sniper platoon commander in Afghanistan.

"I remember my mom, at one point, wanted me to — she was, like, ‘Well, you can pick any of the jobs. Why don’t you be a comptroller or a finance-type of officer?’ " Nick recalls. "I'm like, ‘Mom, no one watches a Marine commercial and is, like, I really want to do the accounting for them.' "

Almost immediately, Nick felt the commercial effects of post-9/11 sports. In May 2010, even before he was deployed overseas, he was being sold as a hero. It felt inauthentic.

"They were having Marine Week in Boston, and it was a pretty big deal," Nick says. "They had wanted me to throw out the first pitch at Fenway during one of the games. It would’ve been a good story of having the manager’s son being a Marine and throwing out a first pitch at Fenway. But I was horribly uncomfortable with that and didn't think I had done anything to deserve that and gave them a firm pass on that one."
This Memorial Day, the Red Sox unfurled an American flag over the Green Monster. (Omar Rawlings/Getty Images)
This Memorial Day, the Red Sox unfurled an American flag over the Green Monster. (Omar Rawlings/Getty Images)

After he left the service, Nick worked in baseball for the Angels, Dodgers and Mets. Ostensibly, he was a liaison to veterans. But what was being sold to the public as patriotism felt like commercialism. What Astore wrote outside of the game, Francona felt working within it. Camo jerseys. Corporate sponsorship of service, without the authenticity of service. The veterans felt like props.

"And, I mean, if you look at kind of the tone of what Memorial Day has become about, it’s pretty gross," Nick says. "Even on the teams’ official Twitter accounts — a flame emoji for, like, 'Look how hot these camo hats are.' And it's, like, 'Really, guys? That's the plan?' I mean, you can imagine how some of these Gold Star families reacted to that. They were not remotely amused.

"I might have asked the question 100 times and said, 'OK, if you’re selling a $40 hat, how much of this is going to charity, and where is it going?' I think it’s fair to say, if you’re an average fan watching Major League Baseball, you’re going to be, like, ‘Man, these guys are really supportive of the military.’ "

This support, Nick says, does not exist within MLB. According to the league’s figures, only 10 of the league’s 5,000 employees are veterans.

"That's genuinely difficult to accomplish," Nick says. "Like, if your goal was to hire as few veterans as possible, that's pretty impressive. I’m almost certain that there’s more than 10. But they’ve really gone out of their way to avoid being able to even identify the veterans. I’ve been arguing that for 10 years. Like, 'Figure out who they are, so we can support each other and link up and try to address some of these issues.' And they patently refused to be involved in that."

Working with the Mets, one moment defined his frustrations. He created a Memorial Day program where he matched players with Gold Star families from similar backgrounds. The players recorded videos that told the stories of the fallen.

Players, he says, were emotional learning the stories of the dead soldiers from America’s wars. They wore bracelets naming soldiers they were matched with. It was authentic and personal, appropriately respectful of a day commemorating sacrifice.

"So I’m on the flight back, and I get an email from someone with the Mets asking, like, 'Oh, great job. Now we need to get all the families to sign these waivers, to waive the rights as licensees for the bracelets that these guys wore.' And I’m, like, 'Whoa, whoa, whoa, were not ... like, absolutely not.'

"They referred to them as 'license holders.' The families. And I'm, like, 'I think you mean parent of dead Marine or soldier.' Patently offensive. And there was no way I was going to have them sign that and refused to do so. I wanted to know exactly whose bright idea this was and was going to give them a piece of my mind. And that ended it pretty quickly. And the next day was my last day there.

"They called me in and said, ‘You’ve done a great job here, really had a huge impact. You’ve also had a big impact on the veteran stuff with Major League Baseball, but your comments aren’t compatible with having a career in baseball. So we're going to have to part ways.’ "

The Mets fired him. Nick Francona is now out of baseball.
Mets manager Mickey Callaway joined his team in wearing black wristbands on Memorial Day to honor fallen soldiers. (Scott Cunningham/Getty Images)
Mets manager Mickey Callaway joined his team in wearing black wristbands on Memorial Day to honor fallen soldiers. (Scott Cunningham/Getty Images)

"I’m certainly not happy about not working in baseball. It was my dream job, and I was good at it. And the people that fired me, ironically, told me I was very good at it. It sucks. Even thinking about it, I wouldn’t go back and say, 'I wish I had just compromised my principles a little more so I could succeed here.' Like, if that’s the price of success, I’ll find something else. I think it’s sad. And I think it speaks volumes about the state of Major League Baseball."

Recruiting is a main reason the military is embedded in sports. In an interview for my book, I told three-star General Russel Honore I didn’t want the Army recruiting my son while he watched the Red Sox. His response? “You better hold on to them, if you don’t want them in the Army. We’re gonna recruit the hell out of them. That’s how we man the force.”

"I appreciate the general's honesty," Astore says. "It's refreshing, in a way. But I just think that’s the wrong way to recruit.

"I lived in Williamsport, Pennsylvania, for nine years. Of course, that's the home of the Little League World Series. And one year, an Air Force van showed up. So kids, little leaguers, could come and go into this van and play video games. And the Air Force thought this was a great idea for recruitment. And I thought to myself, 'This is completely inappropriate.'

"I mean the Little League World Series should be for children. They're not even teenagers yet. And for baseball, yeah. It should not be an opportunity for any military service to show up and try to recruit youngsters.

"When I was interested in the military in high school, I went to see my civilian guidance counselor. There wasn't a Marine recruiter challenging me to a pull-up contest. So I see these kinds of things as a gradual process of the militarization of our society. And I just see it as something that we, as a democracy, should be guarding against."

Where do sports go from here? I asked one baseball executive, who told me his sport promotes the military not out of patriotism but out of fear — the fear of being called unpatriotic. Nearly 20 years after 9/11, Bill Astore believes these rituals have served their purpose.

"We sing 'God Bless America' during the seventh-inning stretch, because, well, that's what we do now," Astore says. "We have a huge flag and military flyovers because that's what we do. We celebrate a military person after the fourth inning because that's what we do. And we've come to expect it.

"I think we as Americans need to come together and recognize that all of this needs to be ratcheted back, that we need to return to a simpler time — when you played the national anthem, you respected our country and then you play ball. And you just enjoy the game the way it was meant to be enjoyed."

This segment aired on July 21, 2018.

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D.O.T. / Re: WDYDT (What Did You Do Today)
« on: July 24, 2018, 09:57:38 AM »
Doing some SUV shopping. The steering on my wife's traverse has locked up on her twice now. Mechanic says he cant find anything wrong. Everything looks good. no leaks and so on. But what he did find is the entire rear suspension is shot. We just put new struts on the front and alignment. but it is still chewing up tires. So its parked for now until we find something else. I bought it with hail damage at a "hail sale" so we wont get much for it. She wants an infinity. I don't know anything about them so time to read up on them.

Jon, We have owned several Infiniti's and they have all been extremely solid. They are just a very nice Nissan. My wife currently drives a 2005 Armada that has close to 200K and other than normal maintenance we haven't done a thing to it. My son is driving a 2008 G35X with 115K miles with no problems at all other than a headlight assembly that collects moisture. I would hesitate to buy a Infiniti again. Well other than the fact that they aren't built in the USA.  :knucklehead:

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D.O.T. / Re: WDYDT (What Did You Do Today)
« on: July 23, 2018, 09:00:14 AM »
I VERY PATIENTLY waited exactly 10 years and 20 days for this moment!
What does that mean Nate?

Nate, Daughter, right?

That is correct.

And this is my granddaughter

Congrats Nate! Cute kid.  :likebutton:

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Financial Prep / Re: Comment on traditional investing
« on: July 23, 2018, 08:27:11 AM »
I would have to agree with Don on this one. I am 60 years old and will most likely need to work until I die. That is if I want to sustain any type of lifestyle I am (or wife) is used to. So I am a good one to follow what not to do for investing. I was a higher risk investor also. I always did the 401K that were available and instead of picking a conservative fund I always picked the high growth funds. They go up quick and go down quicker. I didn't monitor the 401k's very closely. Set it and forget it. The one thing that did amaze me when I started to dig into the funds was that most of the fee's were hidden and you couldn't tell how much the investment company was actually taking out. This was back in early 2000's and now it has changed a little but I used to drive by the Fidelity Investments (they target the military) headquarters in Westlake Texas every day. It was huge and beautiful. They had to paid for it from their investors dollars. Whether the stock market went up or down they still took out the same amount of money. They still received sales bonuses even though their funds were down 10%. I had a soccer dad friend that worked there and he definitely had drank the corporate koolaid. He had a hard time explaining to me why "PROFESSIONAL" money managers like Fidelity hires couldn't even beat an index fund average the majority of the time? Why they would hold a stock until it reached rock bottom and then sell? etc... His attempts to answer didn't increase my confidence in them. I still have some funds with them but haven't increased them in 20 years.

So I have lost money in Commercial Real Estate investments. (2006 Texas again). I like most rolled my capitol gains from home sales into a bigger larger homes when I moved for new jobs. Doing that for jobs I wasn't in control of timing and when I got laid off in NJ 2010 I lost over $100K on that house. Plus it took over a year to sell so I wiped out pretty much all of a stock investment college fund for the kids paying bills. But hey I didn't miss a payment of go bankrupt! LOL So still have 826 credit score. Hmmm not sure that is a good thing. My opinion is they got you by the short hairs if you work for a company. You can really only get some tax benefits if you defer tax on 401k's to when you retire and your income is much less. Same with Roth and regular IRA's. You are hoping you have some gains to be taxed at a lower rate when you are older and eligible. Heaven forbid you need to withdraw any of that money. They really whack you.

SOoooooo my advice is to invest in yourself. Learn a new skill or trade but mainly create multiple streams of income. If you work for a company start a small company doing something you enjoy on the side. With the internet these days you can sell anywhere in the world. I have kids 20 and 16. They will go to good colleges but I have pounded into their heads to work for themselves. Network with other people. Make connections. Enjoy life before you are old and ready to retire and then croak off before you can.

I am in the IT world and I have seen so many people become wealthy just by filling a need with software. They started small and developed programs they could sell. They sold the same software it took the same effort to develop once and sold it 100 times with virtually no additional effort other than supporting the software after the sale. Which they get paid for as well in annual maintenance fee's!

So learn Java or some programming language and develop some small program someone needs. Again... do as I say and not do..I hate programming. I tried it and can't do it. It makes me very frustrated when I write a huge program and if I forgot to put a comma somewhere it blows up. So no I manage people that do enjoy it. :)

I am trying to get out of real estate right now.

Key is diversify.

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