Novel approach, I love it!
I think you all are going to be happily amazed at what God does here with this Season's giving thing. I just know it, I just know him. He loves those girls, and it seems we are settling in on them and perhaps someone we don't know about just yet. But you don't have to try or want or feel bad about not participating or anything like that. If Our Lord truly loves children, and he does, then he will provide. There is really nothing you need to do except to talk to him. He will direct those he sees fit to do what he envisions. Pray for me to hear his voice, that I amy do what it is he wants, and in such a way as to shed all the glory on him.
I pray that this giving we do blesses all of you, givers and not, equally. Let this seep into your soul. Watch what God is made of (Love) work in plain view here.